Lorin April 30

Getting lazy and have not kept up with so much more important things going on, which Joy has kept you posted on. So I thought I'd note a couple of side things. Like when we went for a visit to Cambria, so much needed!, and I walked with Dandy in the old neighborhood. He spotted a concrete pig (no kidding) and had to investigate:

The other day, back in Malibu, we decided to wander down to Venice beach, an area we've always loved. It was a Tuesday morning, so the normal crowds weren't there, but it was fun anyway. You know how I love signs. The picture below gives you a sample, two star signs in one. In case you can't quite make them out: "Evaluation Center Medical Marijuana," and "Botox on the Beach"

And then there is the sadder side, the homeless. You can't read the sign that this man is wearing, but it reads "Venice, Don't Dump On The Homeless." Written right on the toilet seat lid. A sorry comment on our society today.

And that's it for now. It's warm and windy on the coast. Thanks for all the good words and thoughts for Joy; they help.

Lorin April 23

We're back in Malibu after a short time in Cambria visiting with our wonderful circles of good friends, feeling grateful that we could be with so many of them and blessed to know such fine folks. A short visit, and a good one.

Now we're back in Malibu, the land of normalcy...."normalcy," a word coined by Warren Harding....Oh, here's a glimpse of normalcy Malibu style:

On a different note, the numbers of pelicans flying over has been incredible. Even tonight. Walking Dandy just a bit ago, I snapped this:

Joy April 14

Hi all,
As you may know i got a call from Dr. yesterday and i am in the clear. I go to her on the 26th for post check up. I know there will be no Chemo and i am working in my fiendish mind on a plan to get out of radiation--ha, lots of luck. She is a very little woman who packs a big authority stick. I will do it her way.

We have been watching whales and pelicans and enjoying the day. temp here ,72 or so.. clear tho there is wind and the sea is choppy.

I am in a strange kind of head place. I have known all along i was healthy and this would be more about a life affirming process -- never thought i was in danger, really. If i was in a state of denial of "reality" so be it. I would much rather spend my days enjoying life then worrying about death.

There have been exquisite writings coming in from all of you and i am so grateful for them. thank you

April 8 Lorin

Joy's doing well, has to recover for about two weeks and we will see. She says hello to everyone.

Meanwhile, although the temperature has dropped we've had a lovely day. Gorgeous clouds and fleets of pelicans.

And, finally, here's a picture that gives you an idea of how we're perched in Malibu---above Pacific Coast Highway. We're actually looking more South than West.

And that's it for today.

Lorin April 7

Joy's procedure went well this morning and she is resting now, deeply, with our trusty therapy dog Dandy at her side. By next Tuesday we should have a better idea of the timing of the rest of her treatment. In the meantime, thanks for all the thoughts and prayers and emails. And remember, gratitude is an attitude---among other things.

Joy April 2

Hi all,
April 2d and showers came to Malibu, tomorrow too i am told. We went from pretty hot to cool. Lorin leaves for Vegas and accountant tomorrow back Tues.
We are on hold till the 7th when i get to have another surgery/biopsy. If all goes well there will be a recovery time followed by 6 weeks of radiation. I have been telling a joke no one is laughing at. "I knew i needed radiation but i didn't think it would be coming from Japan." -- No one even smiles. Maybe it is my delivery???
I bought a bamboo plant today -- you know the "good luck" plant. it is pretty in it's own right and who am I to say it won't work?
I look forward to my dear friend's visit on Monday, going to look up places here to meet for lunch.
The three of us seem to be fine in this space, Lorin put up the awning today so we will have shade all the time -- nice to sit out and watch the water, people, pets (there is a cat on leash) children's toys. Dandy is loved by all. He had a bath the other day and the owner was raving about his being so mellow.

So all is as it should be, love to all, joy